i am the oldest of 3 children. i have a sister. Brittany, who is about 3.5 years (4 in school years) younger and a brother, Robert, who is 9 years younger. growing up my sister and i always shared a room and even a bed. this made for ample sisterly fights over things such as the phone, clothes and hogging the room. somehow, we made it through that and as we've gotten older we have found ourselves in similar life stages together. i.e. married and with our first our babies.